I am taking the liberty of posting a photograph of Elizabeth Esteve-Coll as she was in 1982, not long before I first met her. It comes from the University of Surrey Archives (Photo credit: @UniOfSurrey Archives (US/PH/2/7/10 ©University of Surrey).

All the photographs of her when she was at the V&A show her, not surprisingly, looking vastly much more worn down and harassed:-